Romance

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before

Jenny Han

Romance
384 pagesFirst published 2014Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers

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Expect a Romance reading experience shaped by Fake Dating, with accessible complexity. It is best approached for its reading feel and fit rather than for advance knowledge of later-book outcomes.

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The one young-adult novel on our lists earns its seat the hard way, by being the book an entire generation used as the door into romance. Jenny Han's premise remains the cleanest in the trope's modern history. Lara Jean Song Covey writes letters to the boys she loves, five of them over the years, not to send, but to finish the feeling and box it up. The letters live in a teal hatbox from her late mother. And then, one appalling September, the letters get mailed.

The desk considers what follows a clinic in consequence management. One recipient is her sister's fresh ex-boyfriend, which is a crisis; one is Peter Kavinsky, lacrosse royalty, recently unattached and in need of a jealousy instrument, which is an opportunity. The contract they draft — a fake relationship with amendments, handwritten, including a clause about watching Fight Club — belongs in the trope's founding documents. What begins as mutual cover story proceeds exactly as the genre promises, and the pleasure is watching Han honour every beat at YA scale: the staged hand-holding that stops being staged, the ski-trip escalation, the moment a performance requires an audience and cannot find one.

What we admire most is Lara Jean herself. She is a homebody in a genre of firecrackers (a baker, a scrapbooker, the middle Song sister holding a motherless house together with routines), and Han treats her smallness of radius as a character trait rather than a flaw to fix. The love story doubles as a story about a girl learning that wanting things in the open costs more than wanting them in a hatbox, and pays better. The Song sisters, Kitty especially, constitute one of romance's great supporting families, and the Korean-American texture of the household is written from the inside, down to the yakult in the fridge.

Honest notices: this is YA in full — the stakes are hallway-sized, the heat is a kiss, and adult readers should arrive calibrated. The instigating mystery of who mailed the letters resolves with a wink we will not spoil. Some plot turns require teenagers to behave like teenagers, meaning maddeningly, and on purpose.

Who is this for? Younger readers starting their shelf, adults auditing where the current generation's tropes were learnt, and anyone who owns an equivalent hatbox. On our fake-relationship list it plays the origin story: the contract, notarised in gel pen. The Netflix adaptation carried the book to a second, larger generation and remains one of the more faithful conversions on record; the trilogy that follows grows up gently with its heroine, and the desk endorses reading all three in one holiday.

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